"Stand in each other's shoes" 是表示站在对方的角度来思考问题的一种常用说法。这个短语最早起源于英文成语 "Walk a mile in someone else's shoes"，意思是在别人的立场上考虑问题。例如：
Try to stand in your boss's shoes before criticizing her decisions.
【翻译】在批评老板的决策前，试着站在老板的立场上思考。
If you want to understand why he's so upset, you need to stand in his shoes.
【翻译】如果你想了解他为什么那么不高兴，你需要站在他的立场上思考。